We've already given you a guide for how to masturbate if you have a vagina. But what if you have a penis? Here's your guide for that, too — and yes, there actually is a lot to learn. This is giving very little credit to the art of masturbation and the multitude of pathways to explore, regardless of which set of reproductive organs you possess. Sex ed in America is a hot mess, and there is likely zero focus on pleasure of any kind, regardless of gender. Everything is focused on pregnancy prevention or abstinence.
How to change up your masturbation routine for hotter, better self-love
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Because let's be real, everyone is different and has their own preferences, which means there are a lot of questions out there. You could be wondering: How the hell do I orgasm? What kind of sex toy do I buy? And, um, is there a safe way of doing things? To help, we rounded up our top masturbation advice — from both experts and normal masturbation-loving people — so that you can make sure your body is getting the proper love and attention it deserves.
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Think about your current self-pleasure routine. There's a good chance you've got it down to an exact science, and that you haven't deviated from your go-to masturbation position in a while — maybe ever. Here's the thing: "Most of us masturbate more-or-less the exact same way we did the first time ever masturbated," says Sarah Sloane, who's been coaching sex toy classes at Good Vibrations and Pleasure Chest since I know, I know, "if it ain't broke, don't fix it. Plus, "your body changes from year-to-year, so what feels good changes," she adds.
You shower every single day—why not take advantage of all that naked alone time with a little shower masturbation? Yep, you heard me: shower masturbation. Shower masturbation is the best way to guarantee uninterrupted solo time, and it's legit impossible to make a mess! To get you started, here are some super sexy ideas to help you steam things up in the shower.